Well I have been where you are.. and while it is great that they are back.. it is also strangely uncomfortable! Talk to him about this.. I bet you he has similar feelings. My h did not want to go to counseling but I did talk him into a one day "seminar" at the church for troubled marriages... since it was not that big of a time committment.. he was ok with it... it opened his eyes to a lot of things... so keep your eyes open. Also I got the Men are from mars, Women are from Venus tapes... had those on in the car.. that helped a little... It going to be awkward for a while.. the person you trusted most in the world let you down.. you are feeling very normal. One thing we did was not move right back in... we "dated again" for a few months.. finally when I felt ready I invited him to come home.. things were stil awkward.. but.. that did help us a little to build back up some passion for each other... you know I think there is some truth to the phrase..."familiarity breads contempt" so often I think we just get so used to each other... we forget what is special about each other.. and well distance helps keep it in perspective! Good luck... this is the hard part you are working on now.. but if it is successful.. it is worth it.. and even if it is not successful it is worth it.. because you will have the peace of mind of knowing you tried with everything in you! So keep on trying!
