Great that H has moved back. I hate to say it, but you are probably pushing a little to fast. Don't think that because you are not fighting, that the OR discussions are not doing damage. My W and I never fought.
You know the program. Try to work on friendship first. The A discussions can come later. You have every right to answers. Please wait till things are stronger. You may even find you won't need the answers later. Focus on showing H the new you. Give him some space and don't look worried everytime he walks out the door. Have you thought about Retrouville or one of Micheles seminars for the two of you? Are the two of you seeing an SBT C?
