I have not been on this board for a long time, just trying to get my life and marraige back on track..
my h came back after being gone(physically) for 5 months 12 months emotionally... he did have ow, you know the story, they all seem to be the same. told me the week of thanksgiving that he wanted to come back. that he was sorry for everything, that it was his fault.. i always felt that he would be back, my faith is what kept me going thru the difficult times.
some days are good, and some are bad. the question that i have for everyone is my h has a hard time showing me any kind of comfort,closeness. i don't know if this is the right word for it. he will hug me goodbye but no kisses. he tells me to give it time. that we need to give each other time to get the intimacy back. i miss the kisses and i guess i should look at the small steps.... at least i am getting hugs.
we talk and will talk about the affair. not getting into too much detail, but he will answer my questions....funny thing is he thinks i cheated during this time. i repeatedly tell him what i did and that there was never anothere person involved with me. i don't know what else to tell him. and i know that things will take time, am i pushing to fast??????
help !!!!
sometimes i do feel as if i am back at square one with him, that we are no better than we were when he left. there is no yelling we talk and get along now, which is good, but i still feel as if something is missing.
