Thank you for the advice. I got into work this morning and there was another voice mail from her last night. It's funny how the change in her tone is so noticeable. We're still on for tonight.
It's funny that you mentioned Nutcracker. I had some friends over for dinner last night and one of them has some pull with that theatre. He told me last night that he could set me up with excellent seats.
I think that's a great idea. I'm not going to mention Retrouvaille tonight. But, they only have those 3x a year around here and the next one isn't until after our D would be final. I spoke with the coordinator and he told me that he could gaurantee one thing. That after the weekend we would know if there was anything left of our marriage worth saving.
She didn't deal with a lot of the personal issues (didn't go to therapy, just ran away) and I think she is starting to now.