Hmm…I don’t know goodguy59. If you are suffering the full force of SSM issues right now, do you really want to press your W into a corner and make her answer that? I guess this depends on how you feel that your W might respond. On the flip side, if you suspect there might be some one else and you need this answer to feel sane, then ask away.
By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. -- Socrates
