Hi GG- welcome. I think you should be like a good lawyer and never ask a leading question that you do not know the answer to. How do you think your situation will be improved by asking such a question? How will one answer mean something different from the other answer? I think that is not a good question... if she says she's NOT in love with you, can you handle that? If she says she IS in love with you, you'll ask yourself (or her) why don't I feel like you are? If she says she loves you but is not IN LOVE with you-- yuck... I don't think that will further the cause of your sitch, whatever it is.
It's likely that both of you are "insecure," if by that we mean that each of you is wondering what the other one is thinking...
