I have been using some very close co-workers as armchair counselors and today I was discussing my SSM dilemma with one female and seeking advice on how to approach W about certain issues.
This co-worker recommended I ask W not if she loved me but rather whether she is "in love with me." She was adamant about the importance of the distinction for most women. I had never really thought about it.
I would like to know from any of you how you draw the distinction, if at all.
Also, how should I approach my insecure and LDW about this, if at all.
