However,you are going to experience a myriad of emotions.Please read DBing again and avoid pushing your H into a corner.I hope you have a therapist to process all of this w you. Don't despair,this sort of "quasi return" seems to happen frequently.Your H may be "sticking his toe in the water to check the temperature", prior to "jumping in"! You have achieved quite a bit by his returning..have patience and allow him to pursue you. Take care...Jenny
