Help needed!! I'm back on the roller coaster. Keep slipping back into the pattern of believing some of what H says, or at least of wanting to believe it. Like his suggestion that we go away for a weekend. He's filed for D--what's that all about?
I guess my real quandary is just how much contact I should have w/him. I've kind of written off this weekend, as our daughter who's a freshman in college is home, and I feel like for her sake I shouldn't banish him from the premises. But I did refuse to go w/him to his mom's yesterday; just sent the kids w/him.
If I cut off all non-child related contact, is that sending the message that I don't want anything more to do w/him? I think that is how he would interpret it. Can I maintain some friendly, but distant, contact, and still keep my sanity? How far does a 180 have to go in this situation?
Any thoughts welcome--I am having a case of the major blues!
