Thanks, Chelsea & C, for your advice. H didn't leave me alone much this weekend. I pretty much went ahead with my own plans (was repainting my bedroom) and spent a little time w/him when it was convenient for me, instead of being waiting at his beck & call. I did suggest that if he wants to see me, perhaps we should date, and he seemed agreeable to that. Am I allowing him too much contact for right now, do you think? It's hard... I know he's lonely (so am I), and we have a 17 yr. old daughter who lives w/me and who is very close to her father. He seems to be trying, but then, I've been known to say that before! Deb
