hi..I am C, the W. Today I listend to the audio sessions at www.marriagebuilders.com. you should listen to it, I found it very insightful, and to be honest it really simplifies things. Like the old saying goes, he is having his cake and eating it too-sounds like he is having the best of both worlds right now. You are there when he needs you, even though hes filed for D. Listen to the audio about affection. Good luck to you
C
Sorry I cant be of more help, but am waiting for my copy of DB to come in the mail!