Fortunately, once my H gets started he has no problem with being aggressive in this manner. Unfortunately, the fact that the actual sex is frequently quite hot between us makes me more rather than less frustrated with his lack of overall desire. If he was a car his problem would be closer to a tricky ignition or empty gas tank- he has a high powered engine and tight steering.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
