LFL, I meant to say yesterday that I also totally agree with the play aggression. When I was first with my bf, before I knew he was squeamish about such things, I asked him to hold my hands down on the bed above my head, and his reaction was (right in the middle of ML): "Who taught you THAT?!?" with shock and some disgust.
Warning TMI follows:
That wonderful lover that I had for many years used to hold my wrists together behind my back with one hand and grip the back of my neck with the other hand while doing me (on my knees) from the back--- whew! What a fantastic memory!
