Good question Anorsexia But the answer is no. The only thing I consider myself dominant in is our communication. He takes care of all the bills now, makes most of the money, deals with more household repairs, etc. I am home more so take care of the kids more but he does his fair share there too. He is not a freeloader in any sense. Never has been. He is excellent at his work and as a father. Confident in those areas. It is the H role that he can sometimes lack confidence and thus it has affected our SL. He is really working on this area though so I am hopeful for the future. I just find it curious that he can be so confident in other areas and when it comes to sex with his W, intimacy with his W, he struggles at times. We had a great talk last night prompted by him and that really boosted the intimacy so I am happy for that. Of course I'd love him to assert himself sexually but it needs to be his choice, not somthing I can force. I'm learning these lessons as we go along.
