Well H initiated...not sex ...but actually a very good R talk. We were sitting on the couch last night and he said "How are you feeling? Are you ok?" I almost started crying but held it together.
I said yes, just felt like there was tension between us. He said I agree and apologized. He didn't say anything specifically about the SL but alluded to it by saying he is having a very stressful week at work and he knows it is affecting the R. He promised to really work on reducing the stress. I thanked him for being honest with how he was feeling and we ended up having a very intimate cuddle session that night, no sex, but I was fine with it. Lots of EC was flowing so that is good enough for me right now.