RE LFL Women like the man to initiate. LFL, I will keep telling myself that. It helps to repress my tendacies to think I am being a pest.
Like I have to let him know I'm interested before he can become interested in me. That's not sexy to me and in the long run it kills me attraction for him But some guys that are not totally into themselves/self centered also need clues.
Lou=As long as there are SS guys like me, 60 is not too old. But I can imagine that does not help you much now.
LFL=You're wrong about that Lou. It certainly does help.
I try to shed some light on things that I have experience with. Me saying it might not help, was meant for how you might feel today about your H and his sexual advances towards you in the short term.
It was also something to counter what I used to think, all the usual women past a certain age had no or very little drive. Or no or very few W would want a sexual R with a guy like me without me contributing more to the R than just me. You know, the guy has to cater to the woman's needs and wants, has to have some $$ to keep her interest, has to do things for her or she is out the door.
I still think some or most of those things are true for many women, but I can imagine someone just wanting to be with me just because for who I am. Not that I am looking for an OW, but it makes me see my R with BB in a better light.
I know several REAL LIFE couples that seem to have very passionate M's despite all of the daily hassles of life Yes, I wonder about some people/couples too. Some hold grudges for months, others fight like cats (noise and flying fur) and make up in some areas of the R, quickly. I guess making up has to do with some one's priorities and what is important.
