RE: LFL Maybe this is the wrong tactic but I really want to see how long he'll go to avoid sex if I stop harping on it. Will he step up to the plate on his own?
I did that with BB a long time ago. Guess what? BB took it as me not wanting her. What worked for us was for me to say what I was feeling in a caring way. Something like I feel "XYZ." Would you be interested at (half hour/15 minuets earlier than regular) bed time?
When I let things go for too long, those "NO's" were too difficult to hear. It's better to suggest things before you get to a point of desperation.
But maybe I am having my own mlc. Scared to get old and then have No one think I'm attractive. If my H doesn't think I'm sexy now (at least sexy enough to want to F on a regular basis) then it ain't gonna get better when I'm 60.
As long as there are SS guys like me, 60 is not too old. But I can imagine that does not help you much now.
The irony being that perfect strangers can see things about you through a stupid computer keyboard that the people we love right in front of us either choose to ignore or really don't see at all.
One reason is no baggage or responsibilities, no dishes to wash, floors to clean, and bills to pay.
