I saw your response to SJT's post where you talked about the detachment thing. I thought that maybe I was getting that down (or at least a little here and there) but it is so hard. I keep going back to wondering how did he love me so much and then just not love me anymore and not want to work on this marriage. I get so mad that he did not work on it and does not seem that he is going to work on it. (You have posted to me before in JBaker;s thread Update on Success) I am having a low PMA day, acutally have had a few of those lately and I can't seem to come out of it. I just want my husband and best friend back. How did you do the detachment thing? I have tried to find some of your story and read some of what you did (that was a suggestion by Jenny) and I could not find them. Any advice would be greatly appreciated by you and any other veteran's out there.
