LustForLife:
You know, I just realized how dangerous you are. I asked a general question about alpha behaviors in regards to seduction and rejection. Then, some how you turned that and got me to admit deeply personal details about myself that I don’t talk about even with my own W. I mean this in the best possible way, but I have a lot of sympathy for your H because I now see how impossible it would be for him to get away with anything Geez, you, Corri, Cobra, and MrsNOP need to open a practice somewhere.

“Anyways, glad it was at least some help.”
It was. Thank you for your genuine concern.

Your perspective on my own situation has helped me process some of my own stuff lately, so thanks for that.”
Glad I could be of help. Actually, I have a pretty built up personality profile of you too in case you would like any other insight. My whole young dating experience was locking eyes with that shy late-blooming intellectual New Wave girl seeking validation from across a crowded room. Though, unlike the other guys, I would just casually walk up, introduce myself, and start talking to her. Gosh, that is pretty much how I met nearly every girl I ever dated, including my W. Thus, if you would like the opinions of an outsider who is very familiar with your type, ask away.

By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. -- Socrates