I think my own frustrations were kind of driving with that thought. I was just teasing silly boy. But I know what you were saying. And heck, lots of people around here are going through "dry spells." Others are in the true desert Plus, my last three attempts this week to demo my best “throw down” were denied. Ouch. sorry Wow, this raises a really great question in line with our alpha male discussion. How would the alpha male try to get the love’n train moving in a day to day real life scenario? Take the middle of a hectic work week for example. The “Hey baby let’s go” approach just won’t fly with a LD partner. Though, the wind blown curtains with swinging chandeliers romance novel seduction by candle light is a bit much to pull off multiple times a week too. Any one have any thoughts? Considering the counter side too, how should the alpha male respond to rejection? So I take it you put yourself in the Alpha camp. I've been trying to figure you out and from your posts, you often come off very assertive, sometimes guarded (I think of that as typical Alpha), and then other times you seem so vulnerable in your posts, quite nurturing. So which is it? Are you Alpha and trying your hardest to come off nurturing or are you truly more nurturing and trying to come off Alpha? Don't tell me your the rare bird, the combo of the two?! Probably not, because you are having such R/M problems it just doesn't compute. So maybe that's the problem. Trying too hard either way and your W can read thru the BS. So my question is, how do you come off to her? Are you more Alpha "hey baby" or more Beta (good guy who tries too hard with the romance and stuff)? Neither one is going to work long term. At least not according to the book of LFL, lol. So need more data before I can figure out where we are going with this discussion...
