“But men do this too. I'm sure guys can get off on some slutty porno girl fantasy for pure sexual pleasure” I am so far behind in work too. Though, I thought I would wrap up by saying, no, my personal fantasy at least has never been for that “porno or pinup girl”. I have always fantasized about having such an intense love with that dark smoldering academic with pouty lips and intense eyes that we have slow, deep, passionate sex in doorways because the bed was just too far away. Then again, I rank Janeane Garofalo as one of the sexiest women alive. Thus, you might not want to use me as a gauge for “most men” either.
By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. -- Socrates
