Quote: Simply because the Alpha male with the sensitive, nice guy traits is a rare bird.
Isn't it actually the lone anti-social semi-vicious Omega? wolf lurking outside the pack hoping to score that you are describing here. I think of a true Alpha male as being secure enough in his domain/pack/masculinity that he can be nurturing towards others. The Beta wolf may be sensitive and social but wants too much nurturing himself to make up for the fact that he isn't Alpha. The lone wolf can be a good f*ck but would make a cr*ppy husband. The Beta wolf can be a good friend but might not be sexual or nurturing enough to be a good husband. That is why all the b*tches want to mate and marry the Alpha.
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