Lamont,
Please tell your wife, that it will be quite to the contrary. The Retro people who are presenters during the weekend do not know who is Catholic and who is not, nor do they care. They will not tell her that she is bad.... they WILL tell her that they understand her pain and confusion, because everyone that leads the program in Retrouvaille has been where she is at. They will only offer her a way out of the confusion and hurt, and help her to find understanding and forgiveness, for herself first, and then hopefully for you. Everyone going into the program experiences a lot of fear.... but the Retro team does a wonderful job of putting people at ease. You and your wife will have lots of privacy too. There is no spilling your story in front of other people. You and your spouse are the only ones who know your story. Hope this helps!