LustForLife
I was wondering why you have been so quiet lately. Threads without your brand of direct unabashed candor just are not as interesting or enlightening. Though, now that I read this thread, it sounds like you have been deep in discussion.
Quote: Anyways, on a lighter note (sort of), wouldn't it be nice if it was socially acceptable to take a lover while M.
Hmm… is your thought that you long for a more progressive M or is it that you really long to be back in a time when we were young, life was simple, and it was acceptable act as such? Out of curiosity, how were your teens and 20s? Were those thrilling and wild years for you? Alternatively, were you the committed long-term R girl back then?
I know that I look back on those years with a bit of nostalgia for sure. Still, so far, I have enjoyed my 30s even more (except for the M issues of course). I am curious to hear your take.
Quote: I need to hear and see some affirmations from him to feel like he is meeting my needs.
This seems to be a common theme in your writing, the need for affirmation. Assuming a perfect world for a minute, how would you most like affirmations conveyed? What would the mix of techniques look like?
By all means marry; if you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get a bad one, you'll become a philosopher. -- Socrates
