We went in June 1999. We dialogued just about every night the first few weeks, went to all the posts. We are together, generally happy--but we haven't dialogued much lately. Skipping mpnths at a time. I agree--a couple of times a week on an ongoing basis would go far in helping us understand each other. I always come away from dialoguing feeling pleasantly surprised aobut something I learned. Later on in the posts you'll learn about embellishing the letter process--e.g.--adding a prayer--it helps a lot.
Yes--do be careful dialoguing while angry, and using "set-up" questions. I think Conflict Reoslution is in one of the last posts, so hang in there until then. I do remember we dialogued about a big conflict issue before we learned about conflict resolution--but remember the key wording of any dialogue question is about FEELINGS.
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