Interesting.... it works.... H sleeps daytime because he works third shift. He must have noticed the distancing a little... made sure to ask me how my day really was, and he did the dishes after dinner, which is a rarity anymore. And before he went out the door to take the kids somewhere he asked, "We are going to diologue later, right?" (usually I'm the reminder) Well, the house is empty right now, so I'm going to go enjoy some quiet time.