My wife doesn't want to have to deal with this at all. She just wants a divorce so that the pain will go away, but that's not how it works at all. I honestly just want her to be happy and if it's not with me then fine. I'll be hurt, but her happiness means more to me, but I can't get her to see that.
What I did is not part of my character at all and I've been really good to my wife the entire time we were together, but she doesn't want to think about the good times or the great times. She just wants out and she thinks it will all go away.
I hope things work out for you and I'll pray for you and your kids.
