I know it's hard because I'm going through all of that right now. My wife doesn't want to go to Retro or read DB or anything. She just wants a Divorce and that's final. I just don't know what else to do as far as she is concerned. I love her with all my heart but everything I read says leave her alone and let her work it out herself and work on me and I'm really trying, but we still live together on seperate floors of course and just knowing that she is still there makes me want to go and talk to her and see if she wants to work it out.
I'm at a lost, but I'm almost finish the DB book and it has helped me out a lot, but as far as my marriage goes that's yet to be seen.
I really want to go to Retro in November, but seeing as though it's a couples thing it's not going to happen.
Anyway I'm going to pray for you and I hope that you find the happiness you deserve in life.
