Well I am here, not doing well but here, We went to Ret Sept 22, I loved it and my H thought we learned alot, he is not home though and I don't expect that he wil be coming home. He keeps saying that if we woud have went before he moved out them perhaps he would still be here, He is pig headed and his pride has got him now.
We go to court the 20th for D. I am not looking forward to it and there is not much I can so. I as many other have said to their spouses is that they would not contest a D, and so did I . so now, I spent my money on Ret, and now have no attorney, it sucks, big time.
I went to one post by myself, and we did do the homework.
Maybe someday things will work out and we can attend again when he is in a better state of mind. He has his pride now and is only thinking of making himslef happy and not his kids apparently.