Hi SJT. My H and I attended in July. We got a lot out of the weekend and were able to take risks and talk about things we had been holding back on. Retro really helps two people communicate with each other.
Sorry to tell you that we only did the homework a couple of times and attended one Saturday due to other committments we had. We continued talking though and my H really didn't feel a need to continue with the meetings or dialoguing. I know the folks at Retrou emphasized how important they thought that it is to continue and if it works for some folks thats great. My H states he can't figure out why after years of doing the homework these folks still need to dialogue everyday.
The important thing is our committment to our marriage and family takes first place in both our lives now. Our relationship is better than it has been in many years. In his words "we are happier than ever and plan on keeping it that way".
I wish everyone still working on putting their marriages back together the best. The turning point always seems to be that detaching thing and it is the hardest thing to do. Keep up the PMA and Patience.
