Whoah! Time out! Didn't anyone else see the word "molestation" in PJ's post?
Pick up any book on childhood sexual abuse and you'll see that "lack of trust" is a big issue for those who have been abused. Also, talking about sexual needs and preferences is as well!
Girl, get yourself to therapy and talk about your abuse...It affects all that you do now, no matter how slight you might think it is today!
