Wow Jane, I love your honesty. But how honest are you being. I too was a huge flirt. When I got married at 27 I stopped. Flirting invites too many things that can complicate life. Flirting to me is for single people even thougn I have done it when I look back now I wish I had not. I can't judge anyone and i won't. I don't judge my W. I let her know I'm here and its ok because I do understand where she is now. I guess Jane, If you can take 5 min to stand outside of yourself and look at the person you are, weather you would like her as she is or see room for improvement? I saw my flaws big time. Still do. Trying to work on myself but it is hard to change ingrained behaviors. I hope for your sake you can find peace within. Rondo
