Help, I still need help, feeling forgotten

[RBinBR]

I agree that HH is a good candidate for going dark.

Reasons to "go dark" and avoid contact with your spouse:

1) The stress of your sitch is difficult to handle.
2) You're tired of worrying about what you're going to say to W next time you talk and what she's going to say to you.
3) You need your anger to cool down
4) You want to plan to DB more effectively
5) You need to focus on GAL
6) You realize that you're pressuring W or otherwise not exhibiting good DB behavior, pushing her further away.
7) You're having trouble with detachment.

Here's a great thread on the subject, started by our moderator and commented on my Michele: Going Dark 101