Quote: I think , HH, you could detach AND explain why, without losing it's effectiveness.
I think you hit on something. For LBS, there IS a hope that detaching and "going dark" will have an effect, even though that can clearly not be the goal. With HH, I think detaching and distancing himself is a pure self-defense measure without ANY ulterior motive. That is why I think he CAN tell her what's up in a matter-of-fact kind of way because there is nothing to hide, no master plan to expose, just a man trying to do the right thing and wanting to make sure it doesn't come out looking like the wrong thing.
