I am the only one posting on my thread lately. My sitch is changing by the day as my W's temp goes from hot to boiling (about not wanting anything to do with me in a R), as her distaste for my goes from a little to a LOT to a litle again, as she dislikes my presence yet calls me often to care for our children on HER times. Mind you, I am more than willing to be with my children, but she is the one who plays I hate you, I don't want to be married to you...come here and do a favor (or 5) for me and take more turns caring for our children even though it's my time to do so.
Confusing, but not really. She has been consistent in ONE vein, "right now" (her words) she she wants a divorce. She also says that "if we are meant to be together in the future, we will re-unite." THAT really confuses me. She wants to be out dating (which she is) and she wants hesr husband to make her life easier so she can facilitate that. But I am keeping patient, sane, loving and gently assertive. However, it appears that I need to change the "gently"to FIRMLY assertive in saying NO.
