No, it doesn't sound like much fun. How does his family react to the situation? Are they supportive of your marriage? Does he have good filters on his ears? My H and I have discussed a couple of issues in detail over the past two days. He is not claming up as he would have done in the past. He does not like conflict. (not just arguements- but disagreements.) I said to him that we have to discuss our issues in order to resolve them, we can't just ice everything over. The most important thing for me right now is to work on us establishing unity in our M and not let anyone or anything getbetween us. He agrees, although when it comes down to it, I am anxious to see if he will stand by his words. I am preparing myself on how to handle the situation if he doesn't and not get angry. He is still willing to work on it 100%. He is going to church with me tomorrow! He offered. I am very pleased about that and praise God!