We are taking it slow. We both know what the issues are and what needs to be changed. Our biggest problems occured because of where we hung out and the people we hung out with. Our first step is getting away from that group of people who are negative influences on our relationship. "Cleaning our ties while cleansing our lives." We are spending time together without distractions from others. When I have time, I will write about his thoughts and what made him decide to come home. I don't have as much time to post now that I regained my wifely duties- but I wouldn't change it for the world!