Hey thanks RBinBR. I am taking your 'heads up' to heart. No more reassurances. You're right, let her see for herself the kind of person I have become. I've got a friend that tells me all the time now that he's seen a great change in me. Even in my eyes. And when the time comes when my W and I meet face to face she'll notice it too. We'll see what tomorrow has for us all. This website and forums are God sent.