Keep in mind that the emotions of the WAS swing back and forth. She probably called you after an argument with the OM and she was upset with him. Since then, they've probably kissed and made up and she might be very rude and short with you the next time you talk. Don't let it get to you if she does.
Keep volunteering at church and working on GAL. Don't point out to your W the things that you are doing -- just let her notice the man you're becoming and let her start wanting that.
I'm glad to hear of the progress in your sitch. Great news about no D papers!
The LORD is near to all who call on him, to all who call on him in truth." (Psalm 145:18)
