Hey there BI! Good to hear from ya again. Thanks for the posts and history.

I wanna hear more about now....how are things going with the 2 of you? The dynamics?

And, just to be a pest, let's get back to the issues in teh M that took you here....you started on this before you left, so how about picking it up again? How is your progress in personal change coming along? What were YOUR issues in M, and has H been changing?

Keep thinking.....there IS a way out of this, you are lucky to have H back and wanting to stay and committed to NOT lying...you have a LOT of power to make this work, if that is what you want. If it is, then be deliberate in each of your actions, your efforts, and you will see progress faster.

How about seeing a C about the A stuff....it's hard to face all that, and it might help. I'm thinking of the same thing now....for my sake.