Hi Believing,

Thanks for what you said about being deceived into thinking THEY are meant to be. I wonder (obsess) about that too. And I like the analogy of feeding the right dog I'm working on it. I'm curious about the rest of your story...

Monica

My sitch:
Me 40
H 30
M 8 yrs
1 S5.5
Bomb Oct 2005
Sep Nov 2005
H w/ Ow
I filed for LS June 2007
H responded w/ D 2007
I have sole P custody, joint L
Just need to take care of Final Judgement papers