They say that all things happen for a reason. I do think that this has been a huge wakeup call for both of us. Especially for me. I think back on things that I could have changed and should have then, but I didn't. I just don't think we will ever be happy together again.

She told the MIL that when she moved out it would make me appreciate all that she does around the house. It has been tough for sure, but I am making out fine so far. It is kind of a funny comment because I have been more appreciative of what she did do around the home. It was like doing 180's from me because I started doing way more work in the house to try and make it easier for her. In the process I learned a lot about taking care of the house wich I am getting pretty good at. The problem is I can't get enough time to take care of the chores outside. Anyway just kind of babbling.

Married 11 years, together 15 Two Daughters 6 and 2 D-day Jan.14 2006 Thread 1