They say that all things happen for a reason. I do think that this has been a huge wakeup call for both of us. Especially for me. I think back on things that I could have changed and should have then, but I didn't. I just don't think we will ever be happy together again.
She told the MIL that when she moved out it would make me appreciate all that she does around the house. It has been tough for sure, but I am making out fine so far. It is kind of a funny comment because I have been more appreciative of what she did do around the home. It was like doing 180's from me because I started doing way more work in the house to try and make it easier for her. In the process I learned a lot about taking care of the house wich I am getting pretty good at. The problem is I can't get enough time to take care of the chores outside. Anyway just kind of babbling.
Married 11 years, together 15
Two Daughters 6 and 2
D-day Jan.14 2006
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Quote: I just don't think we will ever be happy together again.
It's perfectly normal to feel this way at times. If this is how you feel right now, than going through a period of detachment will be easier for you than most. Try that for awhile, we are all going through big changes in life. No reason to try and rush anything especially for a false sense of control. We have no control, we can't even make ourselves wake up tomorrow. Only God has any control.
And AmyC, yes I pulled the stickers off until the corners started to crack and bunch up. I think it was my 2nd cube that I learned to take apart.
Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding
Quote: And AmyC, yes I pulled the stickers off until the corners started to crack and bunch up. I think it was my 2nd cube that I learned to take apart.
Well, Doug, at least you are persistant. Hey, that's funny.... That's a great quality to have when DBing!
