Hanging on, I suppose this was a question that should have been asked a while ago, but what exactly are you "hanging on" to?
To me, it sounds like you are hanging on to your old marriage and your old life. Well, for better or worse, that's gone now. That's why it's SO important to learn to GAL and detach from your W, because this is a transistion phase from old to new, from bad, to hopefully, good, and it all starts with YOU.
I suggest that you should be hanging on to yourself, and your knowledge that you CAN make your life better but you have to want to. You have to WANT to let go of the old crap and embrace whatever the new life holds for you.
In that way, you can detach from your W and "hold" on the the hope that things some day can be better.
