Here is my sitch. All advice welcome

[Hanging__On]

I have no intintions of offering an ultimatum. I really believe our R has crossed the line of no return. I hold no grudge against her. We are all human and no one person is perfect. It is not like we have been close and everything was perfect. We have had a lot of bad years together. I suspicions of a failing marraige 1.5 years ago. I don't blaim her. I am half of the problem. I think it just took her moving out for me to relize that I don't need her to make me happy. I have to be happy myself.