Don't talk with her today. Not with this mindset. Wisdom is learning from others mistakes. Many people here have made the same mistake. You're trying to burn a bridge just so you can have control over your sitch...you can't and having that convo won't help. If anything it reduces your choices and opportunities.
Take a week to pray on it. What's one week when your faced with the convo your gearing yourself up for.
Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding
