Here is my sitch. All advice welcome

[Hanging__On]

Your righ GH. I just can't help but think she decided a long time ago that she wanted out of this marraige and now istead of faceing that fact she is just dragging it out longer. Her parents are pretty upset with what she has done. They are also putting a lot of pressure on her to get it straigned out. We talked about divorce quit abit after I first found out but I told her all along that I only loved her and and didn't want no one else. I feel like she has just shut me off completely to be with this OM but I don't know that for sure. I almost feel like she is just doing what her parents are asking of her, just to please them and make them think she is trying. I could be all wrong here but I don't think so. We live in a small town so news travels pretty quick. We both have lived here since we born and we know a lot of people as well. My W's mom was also a multiple cheater and my W dad thinks in runs in the family. It is hard to beleive that my W did this because she hated the fact that it tore her family apart. I guess I trusted her blindly. Amazing is all I can say.