Quote: My W is so stubborn and pridefull that I don't think the R will ever get talked about unless I bring it up, which a haven't. I am trying show my strengh and just be friendly when we are together. About the only thing we talk about these days are the kids and money. We haven't talked about the relationship in 3 weeks I'll be ya.
We ALL think this but you know what, we also all think that just because we aren't talking about it, they aren't THINKING about it. That's just wrong. They ARE thinking about it but the bad part for you is that you don't know WHAT she's thinking about, right? Well, that's part of the learning curve. You have to learn to accept that you CAN'T know everything and yet you still have to live your life based on what you DO know, which is mainly how YOU feel and what YOU want.