Four Agreements 1) be impeccible with your word 2) don't take anything personal 3) never make assumptions 4) always do your best
Don Miguel also talks about why we as a civilization have been brought up to punish ourselves over and over for past mistakes. Did you mess up one day DBing, sorry, get over it and start over.
He also wrote a book on love. The thing that really stood out is our desire to control our spouses, to not let them explore what they need to in their lives, even if it is without us...this is not love, this is a need to possess.
Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding
