Like I just posted to PMD, you may want to consider doing a 180 and not be available when she calls next time. Again, like I said to him, you don't have to do it all the time, maybe just once to see how it feels both to you AND her. I know you want to talk to her, but more than that, you WANT HER to WANT to talk to you and it's hard for her to do that when she thinks she can just "get" you whenever she wants. She will have to understand that IF she goes, she WILL NOT have your constant attention and should NOT expect to. If she wants that, she can stay and agree to work on the marriage.
